How do I day z?

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I just got KBM so it's a million times better for inventory and stuff and I'd like to get into this game but honestly finding servers is very confusing for someone who hasn't ever played a game like this before. I never played rust or anything so any help would be awesome. I've found a few games where I ran into some nice people but then I get kicked because the server shuts down and I can't find it again so yeah kinda feeling smooth brained having to ask how to even play the game submitted b...